How to cope with jealousy over an ex?

My fiance is still friends with his ex - under normal circumstances it wouldn't bother me, but early on in our relationship his ex was emailing me telling me that he had been sleeping with her and that he was using me, i was just another one on his list, blah blah....





She's admitted she was lying, but the fact that he still wants to be friends with her despite the fact that i was devastated still really hurts because i'm not convinced that she isn't still chasing him.





it causes so many arguments because i can't deal with the hurt that she caused - i love him so much and she broke my heart with malicious lies.





I know he wouldn't cheat on me but i can't help feeling so jealous and hurt - especially when i'm made out to be stupid, pathetic and blowing things out of all proportion.





I know its because i'm insecure but he can't understand





thanksHow to cope with jealousy over an ex?
talk to him and tell him what his ex-b*tch had been up to. ask him to diss her and remove any contact with her. if he disapproves, make him choose between you and your ex. if he loves you he'll stay with you.How to cope with jealousy over an ex?
there are several way you can handle this.1 you can tell him how you feel and if he truly loves you to stop being friends with this women(yes i believe they are still messing around and he made her tell you that the stuff she said was a lie believe me all of it was not made up and she will do what ever to be apart of his life.)2 get yourself an old friend see how he likes it guys love attention give it all to your friend and let him know what goes around comes around,men don't like competition but they think we do.or,3 leave him save yourself the heart ache i know you love him but how much does he love you because if he loves you and only you then it should be easy for him to give up the so called friend ship with his ex.but if the both of you allow him to have his cake and eat it to that what hes going to do.In the mean time you suffer and then your relationship will suffer until its over and he wasted x amount of years of your life .so nip it in the bud now believe me i know how hurt you fill day to day.