my fiances kids mom is such a drama queen and we cant agree to disagree. i dont know her and and out of 6 years, we have never gotten along. its not a jealousy thing with me over her ex, my fiance, she is jus so set off in her own ways that anything but her way is totally wrong. it is such a headache. one minute she doesnt want me around her child and the next minute she is all for it!Babymomma drama...how do you cope with it without ruining your relationship?
If you love your fiance its going to be like this for at least 18 years. Its time you just deal with it. Maybe ask her out to lunch as much as its going to kill you to do so. Tell her no yelling, tell her you love your fiance/ the father of her children. %26amp; for the sake of her kids. %26amp; possibly the sake of your kids some day you want things to work out. You just have to be honest %26amp; pretty much play her little game. Because if not its only going to get worse. She needs to realize your not going to leave.Babymomma drama...how do you cope with it without ruining your relationship?
Either deal with it, or get out of the relationship. Those are your only two options.
But remember, these are HER kids. There's nothing to agree with you on. Only HE and SHE are to agree on things. You get to stay out of that. I know, hard. I'm a stepmom.
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