A bestfriend that makes you feel insecure?

She's a very close friend and sometimes when i hang with her i feel insecure. She's gorgeous and can attract a man with a blink of an eye. Although, she does seem to complain about her face a lot which makes me wonder why she does.


A lot of guy's at my school find her attractive and they always mess with her, and its super awkward - especially for me.


I mean, i get mad at her when they do approach her because i'm not as pretty or as beautiful as her (she has a good personality), but i say i'm alright.


I've NEVER ever ever had a boyfriend yet and i'm in the 8th grade. I don't really care about that yet, because i have been asked out more than her last year ( i think.) but that was last year and this is NOW. Last year none of this jealousy happened.











How do i cope?A bestfriend that makes you feel insecure?
I would say let it go.. but if you want to talk to her and how it makes you feel.. if she is not egging it on.. then it's not her fault.. even if someone is pretty or smart or whatever.. you will always attract different kinds of crowds.. YOU are beautiful no matter what you look like.. it doesn't matter what people think of you .. only think of yourself and to make you happy.. if it really bothers you then don't hang out with her as much or at all.. just don't let it consume you.. hope this helps..A bestfriend that makes you feel insecure?
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Don't let jealousy ruin a good friendship. Be confident with yourself, smile a lot when you talk to people. Think positive all the time. Everyone has his/her own time to shine.
I think this has nothing to do with her and everything to do with you. You haven't stated anything about the way she treats you, so I take it that its good. You mentioned that you were insecure, then you said you were jealous. These are two very different emotions so I'm a little confused. Do you think that maybe its her personality that attracts these guys and not so much her looks which are simply a bonus?


You are still very young and you shouldn't worry so much about getting guys attention..your time will come before you know it.
From my own personal experience, I would suggest to you to think about changing who you hang out with. If she was a true friend, she wouldn't try to make you feel insecure. Don't worry, you are young and there still is high school!
It sounds like you are just lacking in confidence. Sure, your friend might be beautiful, but you have to remember that you are, too. You have to realize that you also have a lot of good qualities and that just because your friend has been getting asked out more, it doesn't necessarily mean that she's a better person than you. The two of you are best friends, and that implies that you should be happy for each other if either one of you has good luck with a guy.
Well I think that she's got some self esteem problems too. She may act all beautiful and act like everybody likes her, but inside she's probably feeling the same about you. You just need to realize that she's no better than you are. Your only in the 8th grade, you have the rest of your life to live, and you don't need to worry about what your best friend is doing, and how she looks, just worry about yourself!! If she complains about something on her, it usually shows that she's insecure about HERSELF. Just be the stronger person and don't let it get to you! I hope this helps...