How to deal with my jealousy?

Well my best girlfriend and my best guy friend started going out and he treats her extremly well and gives her tons of affection. i have never had a guy like that and so i'm extremly jealous of her. not to mention she has a totally better life than i do. better house shes prettier than i am. how do i cope with it? thanks its really starting to tick me off.How to deal with my jealousy?
Dont be Jelous, if you keep ur eyes open ull find a nice guy who will treat you like a queen, the way i think any lady deserves to be treated.How to deal with my jealousy?
Just focus on yourself and being the best person you can be. Try to see the good things in your life. I can understand why you would be jealous in this situation but just remember that the ugly green monster never did anything good for anyone. Fight your jealousy the best you can. Besides, if you care about your friends you should be happy that they are happy. I mean, would you be happy if he dumped her and she was heartbroken and crying. I doubt it. You would probably be upset for her because I am sure you are a good person who really cares. So think about that.
Some times be jealous of someone is a big pain in the butt, but it your friend, you should be happy for her, and support her with it. It maybe hard for you but just keep in mind that one day you will meet someone so much better. Right now it good to just keep your head high and deal with it, you will never know, their relationship may turn upside down any minute.
She your best friend your not going to like what i say but this is the truth if she your bestfriend you should be happy for her and that she found a good guy and has a good life your not much of a friend if u dont want her to be happy and have good thinks happen to her just be happy for her and youll find someone and work hard and maybe one day youll have the house you want to
I know her life seems great and all but try to look at the positive ...think of the wonderful things you have. You might not be as pretty and rich but you probably have a lot of other wonderful things. Dont be jealous of her for all you know shes might not be as perfect as you think. And dont worry a really nice guy will come around for you sooner or later. Just try to stay positive.
Well first off you could talk to your friend about it. instead of being jealous of her you should be happy for her, because instead of having a guy that treats her well, she could be with a guy who doesnt treat her so good. So just dont look down on yourself, and dont let it get to you. think of all the good things in your life.
oh goodness.. that feeling is the WORST! My BFF in high school came from a rich family, daddy bought her a car, and her boyfriend gave her diamonds and stuff on a regular basis.... my boyfriend on the other hand wouldn't even take me out to dinner (the budget of the working class family). I tried for the longest time to look past it... but it was tough when everytime I turned around, she had something that TOPPED whatever she got last. Honestly, this probably isnt the right solution..... but after high school ended, and I started my independance, I found that I didn't really like her spoiled *** anyways... and as for that boyfriend... keep looking until you find one that will give you the feelings that you are jealous of/looking for. Good luck.
I think it's called self esteem, you don't know all of her problems and often times the most beautiful,talented people have the worst burdens to bear. The important thing is to think positive thoughts about the way you are, do you really want someone like your best guy friend. I guarantee there's a list a mile long that you can come up with of things he does that annoy you.:)
Nice that you asked and want to deal with it. My best offering of advice to you is to go and volunteer at a shelter near you....you will see how good you have it. I know you are young and may laugh at this advice but I dare you to do it for one day and get back to me. I really want to know what you think of it.
GOOD THAT YOU RECOGNIZE YOUR JEALOUSY AND RESENTMENT...........





DO NOT COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS........





IF YOU DO IT WILL ONLY MAKE YOU CRAZY.........





I'M NOT THE GREATEST BASEBALL PLAYER, NOT THE BEST SALES GUY IN MY COMPANY, NOT THE BEST LOVER, NOT YOUNG AND MUSCULAR AND MORE, ETC..





YOU ARE CLEARLY UNIQUE AND INTELLIGENT.........





MAKE A LIST, FOR YOUR OWN VIEWING ONLY, OF 20 THINGS YOU FEEL ARE GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF.....





PERHAPS IN YOUR VIEW YOUR FRIEND IS PRETTIER THAN YOU..........SO WHAT........I BET YOU ARE PRETTIER THAN 499 OTHER GIRLS IN YOUR SCHOOL..........





COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS........NOT YOUR PERCEIVED SHORTCOMINGS...........IT'S NOT WHERE YOU ARE, IT'S WHERE YOU ARE GOING..........





BE YOURSELF AND BE HAPPY
Well there's not much you can do. It's not her fault that you feel this way. Just try and do things to take your mind off of it. Things you enjoy. that way you wont see your life as so bad and hopefully you wont be so jealous anymore
bite your pillow and pretend it's her, or while she is sleeping, draw on her face.





Besides! y0u are a better actress than her, you are also a better cook, you have a better relationship with your parents.
Go to church, get involved in a youth group. There are tons of awesome upstanding young men that have true hearts for true love to give you what you desire.
try to back away from their relationship for a bit until you start to feel comfortable with them acting that way around you. but don't back up too far or else you'll lose your best friends.
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take your life how it is, im sure that her life isnt perfect, maybe tell her how you feel
1) ur jelous. 2) too much affection gets smothering in the end
well first you should just deal with it and not care or pay attention and i bet she is jealous about you at times.
well then get a man that is hansom and start dressing a little bit like her but dont this get over your head maybe she is doing all this to upset you just start a new you
Stop comparing yourself to her. There are plenty of affectionate guys out there, and I'm sure one of them is for you. She may seem happy about her life, but trust me when I say nobody's perfect. There's probably at least one thing about her she totally hates. I know how you feel. My best friend is skinny, guys like her, she's pretty, and everything about her is great. But, she hates her hair. She complains how frizzy and big it is like nonstop. Then I remember that I love my hair. You might be jealous of her and her bf, but who knows, she could be jealous of something you have that she doesn't Just be happy with who you are, and remember your not the only one who deals with this problem. Life's not a competition. Be yourself and have fun with your life!
Then prepare to be ticked off the rest of your life. There will always be someone in this life that's prettier than you or has a better house than you or gets more attention than you. Big Annoucement! It's the same for your friend as well as every other person breathing. As for the better life comment, no one has a better life than another human being. We are all here breathing the same air with the same possibility of having it end at any minute, how can one be said to be better than another? Life is life! As for the quality of your life, that's up to you. You can drown in the pity pool or get your free-ride seeking butt up and go out and do something constructive with yours. No good male is going to rain down from the sky onto your head. If that was the case we'd all have a Prince on our arms. Females attract them the hard way by positive actions. You can forget ever getting one sitting on your hands pining after what your friend has. Finally, a true friend is always happy when something wonderful happens to a fellow friend. I emphasize true friend and not a hater! I feel sorry for your friend in a way. There's a wolf by her side and the poor innocent has mistaken it for a lamb.